“It was a positive life-changing experience, and I wouldn’t be where I am today without their support.”

That’s the powerful words from Cameron who has shared his experiences of going into care and the way it helped shape his future for the better.

He explains: “Having a foster carer gave me that safe environment where I could thrive. I was not predicted to even get into sixth form but then I achieved much better in my GCSEs and took my A Levels. I didn’t get quite get the grades I wanted to do A Level History however my carers vouched for me, and I went on to do A Level History and then my degree in History. Having foster carers has made a really positive difference in my life.”

Cameron acknowledges taking the step to be a foster carer is a major decision. “It can be a big change in someone’s life and change their family dynamic, but on the flip side you’re adding something as a positive.

“A good foster carer is someone who is non-judgemental, someone who gives you time. For a lot of children in care it’s probably been a roller coaster so you need someone who can provide patience and give time to build that positive relationship. We’re not always talking about long term. In short term it would be that patience but more so offering that child the support they need giving space where needed and having lots of different fun activities you can do and experiences you can share.”

Wiltshire Times: “Remember birthdays, a young person’s favourite food so you can surprise them with these things. Those small details go a long way and young people do remember these things.”

Cllr Laura Mayes, Cabinet Member for Children’s Services said: “Fostering can have a positive influence on a young child’s life but also be richly rewarding for those taking on the role. Cameron’s own experiences illustrate this powerfully.

“We need more foster carers. Fostering with your local council means all money goes into fostering. We make sure you have good support and training and our payments to our foster carers reflect the importance we place on this role. We would love people who want to know more, to come and talk to us without any obligation.”

Foster carers need to be aged 21 and over, have a spare bedroom, time to care for a child and a willingness to understand young people who have experienced trauma and loss. Fostering payments are from £380 to £710 a week, per child depending on skills and experience. 

For more information visit Fostering Home - Fostering with Wiltshire Council, email fostering@wiltshire.gov.uk, call 0800 169 6321 or text the word Foster to 60002.

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